- Blogtober Came Early | Day 1/30
- My Dream Life is Complicated | Day 2/30
- Making the Case for Free Work? | Day 3/30
- Deciding to Be Better at Something | Day 4/30
- The Business of Podcast Networks in Africa | Day 5/30
- Why I Started Blogging | Day 6/30
- What’s on My Phone? | Day 7/30
- The Cautionary Tale of Modern Technology | Day 8/30
- My talk to Teens on Blogging would go something like this | Day 9/30
- On the Spectrum of Transparency and Accountability | Day 10/30
- Letter from ‘Home’ | Day 11/30
- The Africa You Never Read About | Day 12/30
- The Perks and Perils of Blogging in Africa | Day 13/30
- Reading Roundup: Interact with my 5 African Inspirations | Day 14/30
- Dear AU, are you doing enough to fulfill your mandate? | Day 15/30
- Effecting Reconciliation after Parental Estrangement | Day 16/30
- Why Kenya is your Leisure and Business Travel Destination | Day 17/30
- The Diverse, Unique and Peculiar Kenyan Culture | Day 18/30
- 10 African Traditions and Cultures that should be abolished | Day 19/30
- 5 Books You Should Read in 2019 | Day 20/30
- Reading Roundup: On the Contrary… | Day 21/30
- Spreading Mental Health Awareness to Households | Day 22/30
- 9 Lesser-Known Facts about Kenya | Day 23/30
- We Can Coexist Peacefully in Sexual and Racial Diversity | Day 24/30
- 7 Ways to Absorb and Retain Podcast Knowledge | Day 25/30
- A Family Story in Pictures | Day 26/30
- 11 Lessons from the Blog Challenge | Day 27/30
- To the Blogger who Inspired me without Knowing | Day 28/30
- To the Reader who came across my words | Day 29/30
- Mailed to Winter ABC Creators and Organizers | Day 30/30
The year is 2019, but the gatekeepers of human sexuality are still lurking around. Their daily routine seems easy. Wake up, bark anti-gay orders, express disdain for LGBTQIA to anyone who cares to listen, furiously question why rainbow colours were painted on staircases, walls, or bios, and then sleep. Rinse, repeat.
I speak as a global citizen who is learning over the years to embrace, not exclude based on gender identity, sexual orientation, age, race, colour, language, religion, etc. The world is big enough to accommodate us all.
Despite the LGBTQI community, allies, and civil society groups’ spirited efforts, this is only viewed as ideal. Hence, in the meantime, we get to deal with bigots daily. I live in a society that faces widespread discrimination. Where conservatism trumps liberalism and policing is the order of the day. Kenya is one of those religious nations that promptly quotes scriptures to wish your thoughts and rights away.
Man makes laws. The same laws ought to be changed when they become obsolete due to the ever-evolving times that we exist in. The Judiciary here turned a blind eye. After Kenya’s High Court recently upheld its own anti-homosexuality laws, Kenyans watched on as Botswana showed Africa’s non-growing ranks how to do it.
“The time has indeed come to decriminalise consensual private sexual intimacy… Sodomy laws deserve a place in the museum or archives and not in the world. It is not the business of the law to regulate private consensual sexual encounters.” — Judge Michael Leburu
Botswana did the damn thing.
Religious admonitions have long stigmatized sexual relations between same-sex individuals. The white man and his Bible came with guidelines that have governed and colonized the black man’s mind for years. The irony is that the West is at advanced stages of reversing these set rules and accepting LGBTQI rights, including the freedom to choose the life you want to live.
Meanwhile, African countries remain stuck with the strongly held oppressive beliefs and laws that brand homosexuality as ‘un-African’ or ‘unnatural.’ This does not mean the West is 100% prejudice-free. There have been reported cases of discrimination and violence, which shows there’s still a lot of work to be done on a global scale.
Kenya’s population is largely made up of young people who are better placed to understand, accept, and co-exist with each other. There are still many adults who strongly oppose anything to do with LGBTQI – leaving no room for unlearning and learning – and those who actually cause harm.
Quick question, how is it any of your business? Why do you care if two men (or women) choose to engage in consensual sex? What is immoral or illegal about it? How does it directly or indirectly affect your life? I’ll wait… And if it’s about your religious beliefs, then try not to impose them on everyone else? We can all co-exist regardless of the beliefs we hold.
On racism, we should all treat each other equally and with dignity, period. My skin color should not automatically put me at a disadvantage before I even open my mouth. Unfortunately, racism, xenophobia and ethnicism, and intolerance are still rife in Africa and the world.
We have to continue fighting against racial prejudice and inter-ethnic conflicts at all levels. We should amplify our voices when we see blatant acts of racism and intolerant attitudes at our doorsteps or feeds. Individuals and companies that still discriminate against locals should be strongly condemned.
Let’s create spaces that allow for equal rights that outlast generations.